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Here's my favorite passage from the Indonesia section. To set the stage, Liz, the author/main character is having a moment of self-reflection after having received a proposal to stay the night with the man she is dating. She writes: "I have a history of making decisions very quickly about men. I have always fallen in love fast and without measuring risks. I have a tendency not only to see the best in everyone, but to assume that everyone is emotionally capable of reaching his highest potential. I have fallen in love more times that I care to count with the highest potential of a man, rather than with the man himself, and then I have hung on to the relationship for a long time (sometimes far too long) waiting for the man to ascend to his own greatness. Many times in romance I have been a victim of my own optimism." That is some good stuff right there!
3 comments:
Oooh, I love that! I really need to read that book! I just finished Twilight (the vampire books). Everyone was telling me I had to read them, so I did. It was a very easy read (I finished it in a day) and I thought it was entertaining, but not very thought provoking. If you haven't read "The Secret Life of Bee's" you need to read it! It's an amazing book. I loved it! :)
i love our book club and i love that you're in it!
the clarity of this comment is something that we all (especially women) need to remember. funny, i read the talk you referenced to in the ensign (that's where the food for thought quote came), but didn't see this one. powerful lady. i love how fast we can fall in love, yet how skeptical we as women can be...if only we remember to be skeptical faster than we fall.
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